Signup
LoginLove matters
84 posts
-
-
Ok, so i like this gal since sec 1 now i am sec 2... Then I confessed to her once... She rejected, she said she prefer me to be her fren... Then i tell her ok lor, just be frens... SUA topic closed... settle... So we both started going out as a friend... With some other ppl of cos la...
Then the next year which is this year i confessed to her again... Then she said the same things... Prefer to be my frens... Then the next few days which is 140408 she stead with my fren... I was like wtf... And now... She told me her problems... That guy which is her stead now... Act so cold to her... I stilll got feelings for her of course... But there are 2 problems...
There are like at least 4 guys chasing her.... And all the 4 guys are her godbros.... Including me... But I am her very first "GODBRO"...
Another one is... I veh scared if i confess to her again, she reject me... And if she reject... I'll be like dam paiseh lor.... It's like I can't get over her SINCE LAST YEAR TIL NOW....
Someone help me pls?? I really need some advice... Should I just stay being frens with her... Or tell her how I really feels bout her....
-
-
-
Ah, Sound like when i was in secondary and JC, many boys wanted, but then i end up with not even one of them, funny..hmm...all those years of free movies, foods, fun and tuitions...gone liao. Frankly, i wasn't serious with anyone of them, some like you, asked me to be his gf, I also reject them, cos my grandma told me "Angel ar, study hor, dun play play with love and sex in school ok.". And i took her advice, lucky.
-
-
-
bro sec sch is honestly the best time of my life with my friends.
its the time when you get bonded closely with your friends. friends who would share many first times with you. don't give all these up because of one girl. please. not worth.
i hope you get what i mean. you can't find such friends in the future anymore. ITE, poly, JC.
-
-
-
lol... u so cute..!!!
u are like me lidat.. i sec 3 now.. i sec 1 like this girl, but i nv confess, sec 2 also nv confess, i sec 3 still like this girl, however, all these years i just talk to her, enjoy her companion as a close friend, but of cuz i will get jealous if she got too close in words or action with a guy...
but dude, becuz of her, i improved my studies by going out with her for studying and she teaching me some work, i improved my looks, polished the rough part of myself..
i also got to noe more bout girls..
well... i advise u not to go into relationship.. not cuz of study, which can be maintain by juggling well with studies and gf... but cuz of that sec sch BGR is like quite childish.. they only can at most maintain a relationship for up to 3 months longest, shortest is 1 day also possible... and i got to noe this classmate of mine, she is a very pretty girl, however she can easily find a stead if anyone confess to her... however, u can see that this girl got no love put in the relationship (or the bf)...
btw, we boys might get played too... nowadays, girls are so good at these stuff and like to cheat the innocent cute little boys out there...
actually i admire u with that brave characteristics to confess to her time and again... however, if she dun like u, then might as well dun go in relationship... even if she accepts u, but she dun like or love u, then wat for?
finally, enjoy ur sec sch life with girls... they can be angelic at times, but demonic sometimes too...
Cheers
IA
-
<thetalkingpillow>